Understanding Non-Verbal Autistic Adults

Interacting with non-verbal autistic adults can be a rewarding yet challenging experience. It’s essential to approach these interactions with patience, respect, and an understanding of the unique challenges they face. Here are key points to remember when meeting someone who communicates non-verbally.

Understanding Non-Verbal Communication

Firstly, non-verbal does not necessarily mean the person is unable to communicate at all. Some individuals who are classified as non-verbal can speak in short phrases or use augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices to express themselves. However, many non-verbal autistic adults, like my daughter, may not produce spoken language, but they are still highly perceptive and intelligent.

Patience and Respect

When meeting a non-verbal autistic person, demonstrate patience and respect. Remember, they understand everything you are saying, but they may have difficulty expressing their thoughts and feelings. It’s crucial to address them as you would anyone else, without speaking to them as if they were a child or someone with a cognitive disability. Be respectful of their boundaries and the ways in which they communicate.

Perceiving the World Differently

Autistic individuals often perceive the world in ways that differ from neurotypical individuals. For example, when you or I look at a pool, we might see a simple body of water. An autistic person, however, might perceive the intricate details such as ripples, reflections, and textures. Additionally, they may have difficulty with depth perception, making everyday actions like walking down stairs feel daunting. Understanding this perspective can help you appreciate their unique experience and the courage they exhibit every day.

Expressing Emotions and Pain

Non-verbal autistic adults experience a full range of emotions and physical sensations. However, their ability to express these through spoken language is limited. For instance, they might not be able to articulate physical pain, such as a urinary tract infection (UTI), or an itchy back. This inability to express physical discomfort can lead to immense distress. When interacting with non-verbal autistic individuals, be mindful of their emotional and physical well-being and try to provide support in the ways they can comprehend and communicate.

Recognizing Their Capabilities and Awareness

While each non-verbal autistic person is unique and has their own set of skills, it is important not to generalize their abilities. Some may use assistive technologies, such as tablets or communication boards, to convey their thoughts and needs. Despite this, many non-verbal autistic adults are highly aware of their surroundings and understand conversations, even if they don’t participate verbally.

One poignant example from my experience involves a non-verbal boy with low functioning who could not interact much and drooled occasionally. On one occasion, he used a word board to communicate with his mother what his teacher had said about him. His mother eventually figured it out, having mentioned his name multiple times during the conversation about his lunchtime routine.

Conclusion

Interacting with non-verbal autistic adults requires a thoughtful and empathetic approach. By understanding their unique perception of the world, being patient and respectful, and recognizing their awareness and capabilities, you can foster meaningful and supportive relationships.

Related Key Terms:

non-verbal autistic

Refers to individuals who do not produce spoken language but may communicate through other means such as body language, gestures, and assistive technologies.

autistic communication

Encompasses the various ways autistic individuals express themselves, including verbal, non-verbal, and through augmented and alternative communication tools.

non-verbal communication

Involves the exchange of information or messages through actions, gestures, facial expressions, and body language, as opposed to through spoken or written language.