Horrifying Incidents: My Struggle with Male Harassment

Just a few days have passed since Irsquo;ve experienced the most terrifying incident of my life. In this article, I share my horrifying experiences to help educate others and raise awareness about the prevalence of male harassment. This is not a story for seeking sympathy, but rather to shed light on the trauma many women face in our society.

**Tragic Incidents My Experience**

Some days ago, I came home from tuition at 7:30 PM. As I walked alone, not paying much attention to my surroundings, a man on a bicycle attempted to touch me. At that moment, my body froze. It was a shock that I couldnrsquo;t process. These experiences can leave you in a state of numbness, both mentally and physically.

For many, it might seem easy to react or scream if they were in my shoes. However, these incidents are deeply traumatic, and the aftermath can be debilitating. Women often feel the weight of these moments in their hearts for a long time.

**Facing Harassment from Middle-Aged Men** Since middle-aged men, especially those like the one who touched me, tend to exploit their age and position to harass women, I find it difficult to address their actions. Of course, not all are like this, but Irsquo;ve noticed this pattern in my own life. What acceptable reasons can a middle-aged man give for such behavior?

The trauma of these incidents extends beyond individual cases. Society often views these harassers with leniency or dismiss them, thinking they are just misunderstood or not properly raised. However, women deserve respect and safety, and itrsquo;s crucial to address and condemn such behavior.

**The Role of Parents and Society** When a woman shares her experiences, it often leads to a lack of support. If I had told my parents, they might have overprotected me, leading me to avoid such situations in the future. While that may seem liberating initially, it is a double-edged sword. Parents, in their role as protectors, often shield their daughters. Does this protect or cage them?

In the end, society, parents, and even friends often turn a blind eye to these traumas. The incident with the bike rider has left such a deep scar that it haunts me every time I pass the same area. I start imagining worst-case scenarios and their repercussions.

**Appeal to Men**

To all the men reading this, I need to make it clear: my intention here is not to offend but to bring these issues to light. Please make every girl around you feel comfortable. We are still recovering from past traumas, and it is essential to address them. Reflect on whether our actions align with our values and whether we are truly supportive of gender equality.

***Conclusion*** Every woman has faced some form of traumatic or uncomfortable situations. These experiences are often swept under the rug, and we pretend that we are okay. My message to you is simple: letrsquo;s work towards a society where women feel safe and comfortable. Letrsquo;s support each other and seek justice for those who suffer in silence. Stay positive, and letrsquo;s strive for a better world.

---Peace out---

~@Kumari Jia Raj