The Role of Free Will in Jehovah's Witness Families

Parents who are members of the Jehovah's Witnesses community are often encouraged to raise their children using the Bible's teachings. According to Ephesians 6:1-4, children are expected to be obedient to their parents. However, when children come of age, they are given the freedom to make their own decisions regarding their faith. This approach highlights the importance of respecting a child's free will, as mentioned in 2 Corinthians 3:17: "Where the spirit of Jehovah is there is freedom."

Understanding Free Will: A Gift from the Creator

People have different views on free will, with some arguing that it is an illusion due to predetermined actions, while others believe it is possible only if complete freedom is granted. The Bible, however, teaches that we are created with the ability and freedom to make intelligent, personal choices. Joshua 24:15 provides a powerful reminder: "If you serve the Egyptians, it will be no benefit to you; if you rebel against them, you will not be able to escape. But now if you will obey my voice and will serve Me, and walk in the way of Me and keep My commandments, then I will also set your burdens at ease, and will forgive your sins." This passage underscores the importance of decision-making and the consequences of those choices.

Respecting a Child's Freedom of Choice

The stance Jehovah's Witnesses take is one of respecting a child's right to make decisions about their faith. Jehovah, who created us with a "free will," expects us to use it wisely. Making decisions in life can be challenging, but it ultimately leads to personal growth and wisdom. As the saying goes, 'there are two ways to learn that a decision was a bad one: by the hard way or the easy way.' It is crucial for parents to allow their children to make their own choices, even if these choices lead them away from the faith.

Parental Responsibilities and Disfellowshipping

When children are underage, they remain with their parents. However, when they reach the age of majority, the decision to continue or leave the faith is theirs to make. This approach is not without its challenges. For example, if a parent is disfellowshipped, it does not necessarily mean that their children are as well. In such cases, it is important for the family to respect and support each other, as demonstrated in the personal account of the writer's niece. Despite her disfellowshipping, the niece's son was still included in family activities and events, showing that a brother's or sister's choice should not isolate them.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the Jehovah's Witnesses community emphasizes the importance of respecting a child's free will, even if these choices lead them away from the faith. While parental guidance is provided, the ultimate decision rests with the individual. This approach not only honors the teachings of the Bible but also promotes unity and support within the family, even in challenging times. Whether children choose to continue or leave the faith, the freedom to make their own decisions is a cherished gift from their Creator.