Understanding the Experience of Seeking Co-Passion Amidst Religious Faith

It is not uncommon for individuals within religious communities to question and struggle with feelings such as co-passion, especially when they cannot fully relate to the suffering and sacrifices that are often emphasized. This piece aims to explore the experiences of Christians who find themselves unable to feel the same level of co-passion that is sometimes expected of them. It will also delve into the perspectives of different religious practices, particularly Orthodox Christianity, to offer a more comprehensive understanding.

Feeling Co-Passion: A Personal Struggle?

Many Christians are taught to feel deep co-passion for Christ's sacrifice, viewing it as a vital and essential component of their faith. However, for some individuals, this feeling is elusive, leading to a sense of confusion and even guilt.

A common sentiment expressed among such individuals is, "Even though I am a Christian, sometimes I do not feel moved by Christ's sacrifice. What is wrong with me?"

The Nature of Suffering and Co-Passion in Christianity

Life, for all living beings, is characterized by suffering and terror. As a creature, one can easily relate to the struggle of living in constant fear or pain, either perpetuating or facing it daily. The concept of a deity creating such a world is often met with skepticism, especially when the deity is perceived to be cruel and uncaring.

In the context of Christian theology, co-passion is derived from the belief that one shares in the suffering of Christ, who willingly endured such sacrifice. However, this belief can create a disconnect for individuals who do not feel the same level of shared suffering.

The Perspective of Orthodox Christianity

The Orthodox Church, in contrast to other Christian denominations, takes a different approach to the attainment of co-passion. It advises against actively pursuing these passionate, emotional feelings, as they are not the true indicators of one's faith. Instead, the focus is on the tangible actions of following the Commandments.

Ivan points out, 'From the standpoint of Orthodoxy - nothing is wrong with you. You shouldn't concentrate on attaining the passionate bright feelings artificially, as this may harm you.' This perspective acknowledges the complexity of human emotions and the limitations they impose on faith.

The Role of Reason and Evidence

For others, the struggle with co-passion may stem from a reliance on evidence and reason. Their mind and brain have analyzed the information available and found no grounds for such beliefs. This can create a sense of validation for the non-believers, as they might feel they are thinking correctly and rationally.

Jianghong's perspective aligns with this, stating, 'Nothing is wrong with you. Your brain and your mind are doing exactly as they should. They are telling you it doesn’t compute.'

Critical Thinking and Religious Beliefs

For those who struggle with co-passion, it can be a daunting experience to question the very foundations of their faith. However, this struggle can also be viewed as a natural part of critical thinking and intellectual curiosity. It is important to recognize that not feeling co-passion does not equate to a failure or a lack of belief in Christ's sacrifice.

The television series The Highlander offers an interesting metaphor. In this show, characters who are injured or even die are often resurrected due to their Highland powers. This concept can be extended to Christian theology, where co-passion and sacrifice are not permanent losses, but rather aspects of a complex and multifaceted relationship with Christ.

Understanding that Christ did not permanently sacrifice anything, but rather offered a loving and enduring presence, can offer a different perspective on the concept of co-passion. It might help individuals appreciate the enduring nature of Christ's sacrifice and the importance of living out one's faith through actions and deeds.

Ultimately, the experience of seeking co-passion should be seen as a journey of understanding and personal growth. While the struggles may be difficult, they can also lead to a more robust and authentic faith, one that is grounded in reason and personal belief rather than emotional response alone.